Hey everyone!!! Today a question rises that marriage is successful or not may be arranged, love that why marriage is considered successful or may not. so many divorce are increasing day by day because couples misunderstand the situation , some other couples are cheating each other partners .
In free-choice marriage decisions, one of the hardest challenges is finding a good set of options to choose from. From those interested in marriage, complaints about how hard it is to find a good man or a good woman are commonplace.
Marriage is stand on faith, love, understand that leads to happy and healthy marriage. But in some cases arranged does not work because they are many reasons.
While in India, we may have several heartwarming success stories about love marriages there will be more arranged marriage stories between strangers leading to lasting love. Marriage here is considered to be a lifelong commitment. The partners as well the family have a better understanding and acceptance of their differences. When there are lower expectations and there is a merger of families of equal stature, a strong base can be built. Therefore, in India where culturally arranged marriages are more acceptable than love marriages the chances of them being fruitful is higher. Thus, lesser chance of breaking the marriage.
“Whether it is love or arranged, all marriages come to the same stage after a year or so. The initial excitement of living together fades off, you start understanding your partner better and make adjustments to lead a happy married life. In fact, it is not about the type of marriage you opt for; it is about the person you plan to live with for the rest of your life.”
In many situations the love or arranged marriage also break because they couple do not tell right education what they done and don’t tell many things other also. Whenever we choose a partner from social media from a newspaper it is difficult to judge if the life partner is right or wrong.
In India almost 80 percent of marriages are arranged. Divorces are taking place after arranged marriage also. So having arranged marriage does not mean it will be successful. Divorces are taking place after arranged marriage also.So having arranged marriage does not mean it will be successful.
Today a question rises what are relationship how they are successful in our life. Nowadays relationships of partner , parents with children etc are not so good. If you were to do a quick check on your relationship, what would you say about it? Is your relationship struggling? Are you and your partner connecting well? Can you and your partner communicate without awkward silence or without it turning into a blow-up argument? Or how about, is your relationship successful?
Now, it’s important to decide what it means for a relationship to be successful. Every relationship is going to struggle now and again, but there are key components to every successful relationship. The keys to a successful relationship include: taking responsibility for your part in the relationship, accepting that your partner has feelings (that may be different than yours), embracing the good moments, and not expecting efforts from your partner when you aren’t putting forth efforts.
In every relationship, there is going to be both highs and lows. If you want your relationship to be successful, you must embrace the good moments both in the relationship and in your partner , children and parents. Instead of focusing on everything that is going wrong, start focusing on everything that is going right. Once you start embracing the good moments, think about them. What makes these moments good? This is a joint effort, and so, both you and your partner are playing a role in the good moments, and thus, to continue these moments, you can be in on them together.
Relationships can be not change or may not lead to be successful. Are relationship are faithful or not. Relationships of exist for many years if they are faithful, love can be exists for long lasting.
Communication that strengthens a relationship involves each individual taking responsibility for themselves, actively listening to the other, being able to ask for what they want, and being willing to affirm and appreciate their partner. Respect is a vital aspect of effective communication. While it is important to be able to listen, you must be prepared to hear things you may not want to hear. While you have a right to ask for what you want, you must respect the right of the other person to say no to your request.
In the end I want give advice about marriage whenever you choosing a life partner plz check through him or his where he/she belong to what is qualifications and what work he / she is doing. Plz force on relationships who successful in our life.
Hello everyone!!! A question rises up do give respect to working wives than housewife. My views is that men give more respect working wives than housewife for obvious reasons. Most housework is automated in this century. We have a laundry machine, dishwasher, etc. Working women not only help out their husbands by bringing in an income, but they can also help their husband cook and clean, as cleaning a house and other chores don’t require 8 hours of work per day. Children also end up going to school for 8 hours a day during work hours anyway, so the times overlap.
A housewife is always dependent on her husband for any type of financial capability. Whenever she wants to buy something or have to do some financial transactions, she have to ask her husband for money. Whereas a working women have her own savings and money. So she can make any type of financial decisions on her own. She don’t need any kind of permission from his husband.
Nowadays times the men want choose their life partner to the working women get more respect by their in-laws compared to housewife.
Housewife don’t explain anything she listen all arguments or abuse of their children and their husbands . Even housewife don’t express their feelings and don’t tell even birthday on their family. Their family forget her birthday but she feels bad don’t speak anything. Housewife don’t get paid for their work. The housewife do house work for 24 hours without explanation never don’t demand for vacation or rest. Housewife hope for respect from their family.
A housewife has more time to spend with her family and kids. They do not face any time limits and thus, they do not need to hurry with their life. A housewife is free from the control of an angry or depressed boss and can take her own time in doing the household chores.
A housewife can relax when she is sick and need not be answerable to anyone. She is free from the work stress and meeting the deadline of her work. One of the reasons why most of the marriages fail is due to the constant stress. A housewife is free of this stress.
A housewife has a lot of time to spare for the activities they like. They can engage themselves in cooking classes, gardening etc and explore new skills. They can also practice their existing skills and can develop themselves. This gives them a feeling of achievement and keeps them happier. A happy relationship goes a long way.
The two worlds are always open to a housewife. She can sit at home and take care of her family as well as do some part time work from home. This helps her grow professionally while taking care of house and children.
The main advantage of a working women is that they are a big financial support to their family in this world of ever rising inflation.
Working women always act as a source of inspiration for their kids as well as their family. They come across the difficulties of the outer world and also find a solution to them. These ideas can many a times be extremely helpful to children and man of the family.
This class of women are more independent and efficient on managint the outdoor chores very well. The man feels more comfortable as he doesn’t have to deal with everything in the outer world for his family.
When the woman gets a chance to realise her own dreams, she feels more satisifed and is less complaining which keep the environment at home happy.
The working woman is confident, bold and intelligent. She can help her children learn new skills with ease. As she is worldly wise having been exposed to different situations at work, she can mentor and guide her kids in a better manner. Her way of tackling domestic issues may be mature and smart.
In the end I want say that all women should independent in the today world. I want an example of new serial anupamaa in this serial tells housewife journey. Anupamaa serial taught us a lesson to everyone how anupamaa badly treated by husband and children. Anupamaa husband consider that women who are educated and working women more capable than housewife. This serial gives us good message.
Hello everyone!!! I have been nominated for LIEBSTER Award by second times . I am greatful to Mrs. Ranjini madhavan (Mam) for nominating me for this award . Ranjini madhavan (Mam) is a excellent writer and posted many interesting traveling posts and mam tell the amazing small story though this blog. So, please do visit his blog by clicking this link to read his posts http://httpranjustraveldiaries.travel.blog I am so much happy to achieve my second award nomination by Liebster Award.
Thank the blogger who nominated you, and provide a link to their blog
Answer the 11 questions given to you
Nominate 11 other bloggers
Ask your nominees 11 questions
Notify your nominees once you have uploaded your post
Question and answers asked by Ranjini madhavan (Mam) :-
Q :- What is your favourite book and why?
A:- I don’t really book I read only quote of Adbul kalam.
Q:- What song do you currently have on repeat?
A:- Duniya song I currently have on repeat.
Q:- Which season (Autumn, Spring, Summer and Winter) of the year best describes you?
A:- Spring season
Q:- In the event of emergency home evacuation what is the first item you grab?
A:- No idea
Q:- Which historical figure would you most like to meet and why?
A:- My historical figure I like to meet jodha Akbar , Rani padmawati show sincerely towards her husband love and Jhansi ki Rani taught us who fight against the enemy.
Q:-What makes a good blog?
A:- Good blog makes by creating awareness in our society.
Q:- Back to the past or forward to the future?
A:- I believe that to focus present because past cannot be changed and if we live good the present you will lead to a better future .
Hello everyone!!! The few days earlier Amit have nomination 2 award is Kennedy Award of excellence, brainstorms award could n’t post because I am not well from many days now I little fine by taking medicine. So much Sorry for delay Amit ,Ranjini Madhavan (Mam) , Piyush Gulati and Rishika Jain. That why today I am posting my all award nomination together but I am very much happy because I was nominated by 2 bloggers by same award is Kennedy Award of excellence eight times by Amit , second times by Ranjini Madhavan (Mam) and I was nominated by Brainstorms Award second times by Amit. I was nominated by 3 bloggers by same award is Sunshine Award by second time by Amit , three times by Piyush Gulati and fourth times by Rishika Jain and today I am fifth times by Amit again. Thanks so much all bloggers who nominated this all award. All bloggers writings are amazing and excellent in their work.
Rules for this award :-
1. The recipient may thank the person who has nominated her in Kennedy Award of Excellence. Thank the one who nominated you (Thank you so much Amit ) in Brainstorms Award. Thank the person who nominated you with a link to their blog.
2.The recipient should post a photo of the award on her blog in a post in Kennedy Award of Excellence. Tag your post with #BrainStormsAward and follow BrainStorms if you are willing in Brainstorms Award.Make a post of the award (with a photo of the logo) in Sunshine Award.
3. Display the BrainStorms Award logo.
4. Talk a bit about your blog, why you started it, what you write on and your goal for your blog in Brainstorms Award.
5. The recipient may nominate as many blogs for this award (minimum five) in Kennedy Award of Excellence. Answer the five questions you have been asked in Brainstorms Award. Answer the 11 questions asked by the blogger who nominated you in Sunshine Award.
6. Following questions to be answered (You can change the questions as per your wish) in Kennedy Award of Excellence.
7. Nominate five other amazing bloggers and ask them five new questions in Brainstorms Award. Nominate 11 other bloggers and ask them 11 new questions .
8. Notify the nominees about it by commenting on one of their blog posts in sunshine award.
9. Post the rules in sunshine Award.
Question and answers asked by Amit , Ranjini Madhavan (Mam) for Kennedy Award ofExcellence :-
1. What lessons did you learn from Corona?
A:- I learn the lessons from corona don’t worry about the future contraction in your present. If you present is good then you think about future. Second thing that if you health is good then you well contraction what you want to do.
2.What values drive you?
A:- I am driven the values from sincerity, hardworking, if I determine to any work I will definitely do it.
3. Which is your favourite movie?
A:-My favourite movie is hum hum Saath hai, hum apka hai kon. I have watched many times.
4. Whom have you ever loved from your heart ?
A:- I love my mother from my heart because she support every time when I need my mother. I so luck I got mother like this.
5. Your dreams in life?
A:- To become successful and independent woman in my life and own every mine like car, house etc.
Question and answers asked by Amit for Brainstorms Award:-
1. What is your favoruite sport to watch?
A:- I don’t watch any sport.
2. Who is your idol/celebrity you look up to?
A:-My celebrity is Katrina kalf. I want figure look like her.
3. If you could have any career what would it be?
A:- I want to made my carrier in information technology industry .
4. If you could only drink one drink for the rest of your life what would it be?
A:- It is tough answer but i would prefer green tea rest of my life.
5. Who in your family are you closest with?
A:- I am very much closest to my mother .
Question and answers asked by Amit second times for Sunshine Award :-
1. What is your favourite vacation spot?
A:-My favourite vacation spot is goa, Mumbai , I want visit all foreign countries soon I will visit .
2. Do you prefer hotel or camping?
A:- I would prefer to do camping
3. How many pets do u have, if any?
A:- I doesn’t have any pet but i want to keep a parrot or little one dogs.
4. Sunny days or rainy days?
A:- Rainy days
5. What is your ur favourite season and why?
A:- My fav. season is summer season becoz I can wear shorts with tops.
6. What type of clothing do u wear?
A:-I like to wear midi dress, short pants and western dress.
Question and answers asked by Piyush Gulati for Sunshine Award:-
1. Current book that you are reading?
A:- I don’t reading any current book.
2. What is your favorite song?
A:- My favourite song is pop and melody song.
3. Tell me your favorite poem and quote the lines you found beautiful?
A:- I don’t have such any favorite poem.
4. What inspires you to keep blogging?
A:- To make people awareness what is going in our society inspires me to keep blogging.
6. If you were given a chance to transport 50 years back, what would you do?
A:- No idea yet
6. Tell me a happy memory of yours associated with blogging ?
A:- I am happy when I was first time nominated by award.
7. What is your favorite book genre?
A:- I don’t read book I sometimes read books only.
8. List three authors that you simply love?
A:- No such idea
9.What do you prefer more: A series of books or an independent novel?
A:- I really don’t know
10. One book which you read and thought “I wish I would’ve written this”?
A:- I through I would written the book to change the ritual of society.
11. Coffee in a cafe in the evening or snacks at a bar at night?
A:- I would prefer to have coffee in a cafe in the evening.
Question and answers asked by Rishika Jain for SunshineAward :-
1. What would your best day look like? Explain.
A:- My best day is Monday I look like.
2. What genre of books is best for your eyes to consume?
A:- No idea
3. What dream place would you really enjoy visiting?
A:- I dream place I would really enjoy visiting to Paris, Singapore and Maldives.
4. What is your dream type of work life?
A:- I want excellent work in field of Information technology or want become actress in the upcoming career .
5. How do you deal with stress?
A:- To do medication to calm the mind.
6. Favorite movie ?
A:- My favorite movie is hum Saath hai or hum apka hai kaun.
7. Favorite dessert?
A:- My favourite dessert is ice-cream
8. Where would you want to spend your summer vacation in?
A:- I want to spend the summer vacation in Goa and Mumbai.
Question and answers asked by Amit fifth times for Sunshine Award :-
1. Do you prefer travelling alone or with friends? Why?
A:- I would prefer to travelling with friends because friends enjoyed so much.
2. Whats your ambition?
A:- My ambition to become successful woman in my life.
3. What do you like most morning or night. Why ?
A:- I like most morning so much in morning you do exercises and jogging.
4. Who is the best person you have met on this blogging app
A:- No idea.
5. The best quality in you?
A:- My quality is that I don’t keep anything in my heart if I don’t feel anything that person I say on his mouth I never fear if person say bad things to me.
6. What’s your favorite pass time?
A:- Television and YouTube.
7.What’s your favorite song?
A:- My favorite song is melody and pop song.
8. How do you classify yourself as introvert or extrovert?
A:- I am introvert.
9. If you got to play a role in movie with which actor or actress you would love to play a role with?
A:- I love play role with my favorite actress is Katrina kalf.
10. Who’s you role model or inspiration and why?
A:- My role model or inspiration is my mother she means me a lot.
Hello everyone!!! the few days earlier I could not able to post because I am so much busy today I post it . I am happy because seventh times I was nominated by three bloggers by same award is Ideal Inspiration Blogger Award. Thank you the bloggers who has nominated by dear Jofina Anna Reji , Dushyant Chaudhary and Ada. Sorry for delay to my bloggers who has nomination me.
1. Thank the person who nominated you and provide a link back of his or her blog.
2. Answers all the questions.
3. Nominate upto 9 blogger and them 5 new questions.
4. Notify the nominees through their blog by visiting and commenting on their blog.
5. List the rules and display the ” Ideal Inspirational Blogger Award ” logo.
This question and answers asked by Jofina Anna Reji is
1. What are the three things that youwant to learn?
A:- The first thing that I want to learn to forgive whose people who say me wrong words ,criticize but I trying to ignore me. The second thing that I want to learn to say happy in every difficult situation. The three thing I want to learn that no things is impossible to do.
2. What inspire you to write ?
A:- What is happening in our surroundings inspire me to write.
3. One quote that motivate you always ?
A:- The abdul kalam quotes described in this picture is :-
4. Whatyouwant to convey through you blog ?
A:- To create awareness to people what is going in our society like killing the girl child, domestic violence etc.
5. What do you want learn from 2020 ?
A:- I want learn from 2020 to forgive everyone of their mistakes and don’t want keep any reget for anyone but I am trying to do.
This question and answers asked by Dushyant Chaudhary is :-
1. When you was started blogging and why ?
A:- I started the blogging on 10 may 2020 because I want express my feelings and make the people awareness what is going in society.
2.Name the people who inspire you most?
A:- The abdul kalam all quotes inspire me most like “If you fail, never give up because FAIL means “First Attempt In Learning.”
3. Life most respectful moment yet?
A:- When I cleard my graduation qualification.
4. Tell your favourite game and player ?
A:- My favourite game is basketball and I don’t know player such as.
5. How you came to know blogging ?
A:- My friend told about me blogging site. She also do blogging on this site.
This question and answers asked by Ada is :-
1. How long have youbeenreally blogging for ?
A:- I am blogging for 1 1/2 month. I am New this blogging.
2. What is your favourite quote ?
A:- My favourite quote is described in the picture.
3. What country do you live in ?
A:- I live in beautiful city of chandigarh.
4. What is your favourite food ?
A:- My favourite food is panner dish and south Indian food.
5. Do you prefer to read books or watch movies ?
A:- I prefer to watch movie like historical movie, family movie like hum Saath hai, hum apka hai kon etc.
6. Which attribute of yours attracts the most?
A:- My attribute some people may be like or not is that I spoke the things on their face which are true.
7. What is one of the best advice you have received and from who/ what ?
A:- The best advice I have received from my cousin Massi that was don’t care for whose friends or relatives don’t respect and make fun of you . when you starting doing it and they will come after you.
8. If you had a superpower what would it be and why?
A:- Supposed If I had a superpower and I would help needy person and I will washed tears of old people who are in old age homes.
9. What advice would you give anyone about life?
A:- My advice would especially for females in today world all females should must be independent.
10. Would you like a new friend (p. s I am new friend) ?
A:- Sometimes I like to make new friends but they are royal in friendship.
NomineesFor this award :
I want nominate all my bloggers. I think all follows deserve this nominated. Answer any 5 questions from above these questions.
Hello everyone!!! I do not think but Unfortunately, in many cases, women are mistreated badly and very often the importance of women in the society is underestimated. In our society the women are enemy of women like saas – bahu, Nanad-bhabhi and Devrani and Jethani.
For example :-1. Of all the relationships in family life, the one between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law is often the most tenuous one.
2. Mostly they get along and have quarrels and fights even on small things of saas-babu which in turn affects everyone in the family. In some cases the daughter-in-law mistreated with mother-in-law but in some cases mother-in-law mistreated with the daughter-in-law.
3. There is no saasu-maa who doesn’t bitch about her daughter-in-law with friends and relatives and also, bahu is no less, she can’t live without complaining about her mother-in-law to her mother and friends. Yes, there is fire on both sides. The sometimes fault of daughter-in-law or mother-in-law in many cases.
4. In many cases mother-in-law want boy child from their daughter-in-law after the daughter-in-law have 2 daughter only but daughter-in-law don’t have another they are forced by their husbands, mother-in-law. From women point you can understand feel of daughter-in-law in this situation.
5. But in end I want say please think daughter-in-law should think mother-in-law as consider as like own mother and mother-in-law also consider their daughter-in-law as like their own daughter both should involved good bond of friendship. That why they can keep happy environment in their family.
For example :-a) After marriage, the girl has to maintain a good relationship with each of her members, living in a new family. Especially if the husband has a sister and the relationship becomes good, then even the newly married daughter-in-law gets a friend.
b) However, it is not necessary every time this happens but some Cases Bhabhi don’t involve beyond with their elder nanad in household activities and treated elder nanad by saying bad things and don’t respect at all. My views this fault brother and parents who brother and parents can listen against sister and daughter.
c) Sometimes I think parents are helpless or in our Indian Society parents think that all property of their sons, and only son when their are lives or died given their all property in hands that house because they think everything to get boys not to girls. That why Bhabhi of that house have all rights she can do anything start insulting nanad of that house no one can stop her. In some cases hat is fact when father or mother died of that house. Nanad of that house door are close forever is sad to know the girl no rights in that house where their is born and brought up.
d) In many family parents don’t consider that girl don’t have right in their property they don’t give anything against the property that is every wrong. Girls have equal rights in their parents property.
e) I really example my Nani Ji admitted in the hospital. My Mami is alone at the house searched the property paper when my mami get the property paper. My Mamu and mani has signed the property paper from my Nani Ji. This wrong things happened to all daughters of that house.
In the end plz I want say nanad and Bhabhi should try to become friends to each other.
For example :-In family devrani jethani relation never work except if they live separately in most cases devrani is fighting with jethani in case of property etc.
Women are mistreated at their workplace in many cases the women get less salary compare to men. At workplace many times men employees are jealous with promotion of female. If the women is boss of that company the male employee consider she is boss can do anything of their choice I made to faced the really of our society.
Support if died of parent of girl and boys. The boy have all right fire the died body of parents and perform the ritual. But I am sad for women of our society forced they don’t put flowers on their died body because they are girls.
If the parents have only daughter in family. After the died her parents she performs all the rituals that our society accept. But sometimes people also think the females have small dress that why invite the boys rape happened of womens. No anyone can’t understand situation when the rape has happened to females.
Plz stop doing all things to girls, female and women etc. Thanks for reading this blog and give view how we should stop this 🙏🙏🙏
Hello everyone!!! I have nominated the fourth time by Brainstorms award. I am so thankful Rishika Jain by this award , fifth time I have nominated by The Penable Award. I am so thankful daneelyunus and sixth time I have nominated by Awesome blogger Award by Anurag . I am greatful to all nomination they consider me capable to all award.
Rules for all award :-
Thank the one who nominated you.
Tag your post with #BrainStormsAward and follow BrainStorms if you are willing ,Tag your post with the #Penable award and tag the post with #Awersome blogger award.
Display the brainstorms Award logo and display the Penable Award logo.
Talk a bit about your blog. Why you started it, what you write on, and your goal for your blog in brainstorms award.
Tell us what your writing talent is in the Penable award.
Answer the 5 questions you have been asked , answer the 3 questions you have been asked and answer the question you were asked.
Nominate 5 other amazing bloggers in brainstorms award, awesome bloggers award nominate 3 inspiring people for this the Penable award.
Ask them 5 new questions in brainstorms award
Give then 3 questions to answer in the Penable award and give then new 5 questions to answer in awesome bloggers award.
Question and answers :-
Q:-Tell me 3 things about yourself which you like most?
A:- The hardworking work, successful in my life and doing creative in my free time.
Q:- What you want in your life?
A:- I want become successful and famous women in my life.
Q:- What is your favourite hobbies?
A:- My favourite hobbies to listening music.
Q:-Where you want reached in your future?
A:- By doing hardwork I want reached beyond extent.
Hi everyone !!! l hope all is well at your place. Today second time I was nominated for Sunshine Award by dear Rishika Jain https://theetherealunicorn.wordpress.com. I am really thankful of Rishika Jain who consider me that I am capable this award.
The Sunshine Blogger Award is given by bloggers to bloggers who inspire positiveness and creativity in the blogging community. The rules are:
1. Thank blogger(s) who nominated you and link back to their blog.
2. List the rules and display the Sunshine Blogger Award logo in your post and/or on your blog.
3. Answer the 11 questions the blogger asked you.
4. Nominate up to 11 new blogs to receive the award, write them 11 new questions and notify them about the nomination.
Question and Answers:-
1. Do you think your name is cute?
How people can think their cute. I never think my name is cute. I don’t understand how names can be cute… 🤔🤔
2. If you had a chance to chose your name, which name would you chose and why?
Really I am not fine with my name. From my childhood I want keep my name krisha. Because Krisha I like so much.
3. Do you have any hobbies other than writing?
Make things from old waste (Reusable waste)
Doing makeup in my free time
4. Be it books or movies, if given a chance, which character’s life would you chose to live and why?
Really it difficult a job to select a particular character. I would like change villain character in movie. As we all know about Dabangg 3 the villain change Kannada star Kiccha Sudeep .i am want live life of Ranveer Singh I like it character most in movie because he is humble and happy person.
5. If you have a job now, are you happy with it? If given a chance, which one would you switch to?
No I have study that why I have not try for job .
6. Do you like to cook?
I don’t like to cook really. But I want to cook sometimes I would prefer to cook any panner dish.
7. Which is your zodiac sign?
8. Do you believe in predictions made for your zodiac sign?
Sometimes I believe in predictions are really happened in the world. The predictions happened in the future or not. I think, the scholars then were much truthful or not.
9. Are you, so far, proud and satisfied with the progress of your blog?
No yet satisfied with my blog because I want more followers but I am proud my achievements in blog.
10. What’s the most useless piece of knowledge you know?
Their is nothing as such we know the knowledge you can gain knowledge by reading books and many others sources of knowledge you gain .By any age you learning or gain knowledge.
11. What is your favorite work from your blog. Post a link so everyone can enjoy it!
My favourite work to writing my thoughts in my blog.
Thanks so much again Rishika Jain for the nomintaion 😊😊